ENFP’s have a tendency to overextend themselves in both their physical and emotional commitments. Their proclivity to procrastinate and to overlook details complicates their circumstances. ENFP’s often move on to new ventures without completing those they have already started. Their charming personalities can show signs of irritability and over-sensitivity when their desires to please different people come into conflict. During times of stress, ENFP’s feel alienated. They then engage in deceptions that serve to obscure what is occurring within themselves. 

The ENFP finds symbolic meanings behind the immediate circumstances. These meanings are construed as foreboding problems when ENFP’s are under stress. Having a pervasive feeling of losing control over their own independent identities, ENFP’s will feel virtually split apart by intruding circumstances. They will be “besides themselves” and “just not all there” — as if something, or someone, has taken away the essence of who they are. Not feeling like themselves, the ENFP will become subject to their own feelings of shame for being a phony, a fake or an impostor. If stress continues to grow, they may attribute malevolent schemes to others in order to explain away their fears.